Oftentimes, there’s a common misconception that introverts are painfully shy, awkward or simply unsocial. However, this is not the case. Many introverts will surprise you with their witty repertoire. It is worth the wait.
Maybe, as an introvert, you don’t feel comfortable around large groups of people, but are the social planner for your small network of friends. Maybe you simply need “me” time to recharge cuddling up with a book, watching Netflix, or coloring that painfully detailed adult coloring book, in lieu of hanging out with others. Or maybe you are one of the shy introverts who prefers to remain to herself.
We are all uniquely ourselves, even if we may have tendencies on one side of the spectrum.
Introverts are loyal
Introverts may have a smaller network of friends, but they tend to be closer to those friends that they have – think quality versus quantity. Because of this more-solidified bonding, they are loyal, and oftentimes, put others before themselves. They may enjoy two player board games to larger group games, because they cherish deep rather than shallow interactions.
They believe in you, are your biggest cheerleader, push you to excel, and wholeheartedly trust you. They will stick up for you until the bitter end. They are your most trusted partner-in-crime and your confidante.
Independence is an attribute, almost to a fault
Introverts are extremely self-reliant, almost to a fault. They will hesitate to ask for help and, much of the time, rely solely on themselves to meet most of their needs. This is a helpful character trait to remember about your introverted friends. It’s always nice to offer to help them, as they may not ask for it when they need it.
They are dependable, responsible and are never in need of entertainment.
There is never a lack of interesting topics and happenings with an introvert
Because introverts spend so much time in their own world, they never lack for entertaining conversational material – they just may be in need for some of the conversational skills. That’s ok – once they trust you, they’ll regale you with their creativity, and you won’t leave disappointed.
Introverts are Deep Thinkers
Daydreaming is a common pastime for introverts, and imagination blossoms from those on the introverted side of the spectrum. How else do you think they can consistently surprise you with all that wit? It doesn’t come from thin air.
They dream big. Creativity is not lacking in their dreams, and you will often never know fully what is going on in their heads. I say keep the mystery.
They do a lot of research (and enjoy doing so) – for example, when doing research on a home appliance to buy for the house, they will be able to recite to you all the technical details of the best air purifier they have found.
They Know Themselves
They’ve allowed themselves time to consider their morals, beliefs, values, and are not easily swayed from their own way of thinking. However, they are not closed-minded. They are proud of who they are, who they’ve become, and how they’ve progressed in life.
Introverts are not rigid in their personalities and are not afraid to evolve, but their beliefs have been well-thought and pondered. They recognize that people internally change as they age, gain new wisdom and fresh perspectives, and they aren’t afraid to move fluidly through this process.
They are Easy to be Around
They are ok with silence, and there’s no pressure to constantly fill that silence. You can just be. Isn’t that refreshing?
They are not combative. They do not try to convince you of their views, but are happy to let you be you.
They appreciate variety. They are open, friendly and inviting. They are not ones to waste words, and oftentimes, their smile says more than any words could have ever relayed.
Taking Care of Themselves and Others is Vital to their Well-Being
Because they spend so much time alone they are used to taking care of themselves. As a bonus, they can easily see the needs of others, because they attend to their own needs with little help, and are quick to step in to help others, as a result. They understand that it’s better to give than it is to receive. However,they understand the importance of balancing this with their own self-care.
In general, personalities are complex, whether introverted, extroverted, or somewhere in between. It’s helpful to understand the people you surround yourself with. This article solely focused on introversion, but in no way means one type of personality is more important or desirable than another.
Simply put, figuring out an introvert may be a bit complicated at first, because much of what they are thinking and feeling is held within, but once you have one on your side, as a friend or as a partner, you’ll be forever grateful that you found someone as loyal, kind and sensitive as this soul.
Janet Miller is a certified yoga instructor, nutritionist and seasoned work at home mom of four. She spends much of her free time learning about human behavior and loves to interact with like-minded bloggers. You can read more of her writings here: http://www.The post Seven Reasons Why Introverts are Irresistibly Attractive appeared first on Intent Blog.
